I was born in Argentina, a country with a Jewish population of 180,000. I used to go to a Jewish school and on weekends I would go to a Jewish club. My summers were usually spent at Jewish camp and my whole life was based around Judaism. All my friends were Jewish and I probably only knew 10 people who weren’t Jewish. Judaism has always been a big part of my life considering that my dad is a Rabbi, my mom is a Morah, my uncle is a Rabbi, and my grandma is a Rikuddim Morah. In 2020, my family made the decision to move to El Salvador to work in the Jewish community here. At that moment, I thought that my biggest worry was starting a new life in another country, but now I have realized that my biggest challenge is continuing my Jewish life.
When I got to El Salvador, the first thing the locals told me was that they had a very small Jewish community. I did not think much about it until they said that only 120 Jewish people lived here. I was so confused, and I thought that there was no way. I went from going to a school with 50 Jewish classmates to being the only Jewish student in my school. In my Jewish after-school program, there were only 7 other teens with me. People's reaction to me being Jewish was weird sometimes. I would hear things like “Oh, so you don’t believe in Jesus?” or “I’ve never met a Jew before! Wow!” Having this big of a change, I distanced myself from my Judaism and I got totally lost.
Not only was being Jewish a challenge, but my family is Shomer Shabbat and keeps kosher, meaning that, while my friends were going out on Fridays, I was having Shabbat dinner at my house. When we would go out, we always had to go somewhere with a vegetarian menu so I could eat. Most people don’t understand my religion, and some of my friends still struggle with understanding why I can’t have a piece of their hamburger or why I can’t hang out on Friday nights. Something that felt so simple and understandable for me, became a load on my back of having to explain this stuff to everyone I met. Because of that, I started changing the definitions a little bit, kosher turned into vegetarian, Shabbat turned into family dinners, and being Jewish turned into silence.
4 years later, I can say that I love my community. I love how everyone knows everyone. I love explaining to my friends who aren’t Jewish things about judaism. I love my Jewish friends who have become my best friends and understand me better than anyone. I love how close we feel to everyone in Shabbat. I love teaching kids everything I know about Judaism and inspiring them to connect with their identities. I have never been so proud of my Jewish identity as I am now. Now I know that I will always be Jewish, it doesn't matter where I live.
Tami is a BBG from El Salvador and is very passionate about Jewish rights and dancing!
All views expressed on content written for The Shofar represent the opinions and thoughts of the individual authors. The author biography represents the author at the time in which they were in BBYO.