Many of us feel daunted to join a team of people that we don’t know.  It is totally natural to feel this way, but challenging yourself to meet and collaborate with new people is a valuable life skill. Joining an IC Steering Committee is a great, low-stakes way to develop this skill and gain confidence socially because you will be connecting with a group of people with whom you already share an interest.    

I was enthusiastic to join and participate in BBYO as soon as I was eligible in eighth grade. I was very familiar with the organization since my grandmother, my mother, my aunt, my cousins and my sister had been involved before I was. From day one, I was eager to expand my BBYO social network and take every leadership opportunity. 

The summer before my freshman year, I decided to make an ILN profile. I was young; I had never held a chapter position, been involved with committees in my region, or attended a BBYO summer program. However, I didn’t let that hold me back. I had big aspirations for growth, and so I decided to dive in and apply to be on the Friday Night Oneg Committee to steer IC 2025.

Being accepted to steer IC had me on cloud 9. I was excited to meet new people who were interested in honing their leadership capabilities and networking with people across the International Order. I dedicated my time to monthly Zoom calls and countless hours of planning and socializing with Alephs and BBGs across the order who shared my passion for BBYO. When it came time for IC, it felt surreal to meet these people in person and actually know them. Leading the Trivia Oneg and being surrounded by new people was the highlight of my IC.

My advice to future Alephs and BBGs would be to jump right in and test the waters. Involving yourself with BBYO on the international level has only positive potential. If you want to make an impact, don’t wait to become a leader at the chapter or regional level before getting involved internationally. Holding a chapter position, steering your regional conventions, or attending a BBYO summer program is not required in order to lead at the international level. Being a part of the Oneg Committee at IC last year was an incredibly broadening experience. I learned so much and truly felt that I was integral in our international organization.